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Dear Sexpert,
Larely I've been really horny and getting lots of spontaneous erections. So much so that I am jerking off three-four times a day, pretty much every day of the week. Is this normal? Should I try to cut back on the frequency of my masturbating? Is there something I can do to keep from getting so many erections?
I'm a 29
year old male and am not currently in a relationship.
- Hairy Palms
Dear Hairy,
Masturbation is perfectly natural and a good way to release sexual tension and give ourselves some much deserved pleasure. However, if you feel the need
to masturbate so often that it is intefereing with other areas of your life or if it is having any physical and/or psychological detriments, then yes, it is something to consider carefully.
Perhaps a visit to your doctor is in order. Just to be certain there is nothing physically wrong with you.
It's probably just a phase and will pass eventually. But also consider that maybe you are bored or lonely. You might want to try finding some new hobbies that you enjoy. Stimulate your mind and body in new and interesting ways.
And try seeking out romantic companionship too. It doesn't have to be a commited relationship if you don't want that at this time. But it's healthy for a young male such as yourself to have intimate relations every so often.
Sexpert,
I am new to sex toys and am overwhelmed by all the choices. I don't even know where to begin. There are so many kinds and different prices. I need advice to help narrow my choices. I would like some female sex toys. I don't want to spend too much. But I don't want them to be too cheap either. I'd like them to be good enough to consistently bring me to orgasm. I've read stories on the internet about shoddy adult toys that are just a waste. I don't want to waste my money. Can you recommend sex toys for a novice female of middle class means?
- Dazed and Confused
Dazed and Confused,
There are lots of very good sex toys out there that do not cost an arm and a leg. Many of which are specifically designed and marketed for the inexperienced user. To further help, there are many books available on how to use and achieve the most from your adult toy products. So picking up some instructional literature might be your first step to complete satisfaction.
Once you've read a little about it from the experts you're likely to be much more confident in the buying process. You'll have a much clearer idea of the uses and functions of the plethora of sex products available to you.
But if you are in a hurry and just want a quick and easy answer, go for a classic vibrator. A simple, tapered phallic shape. They moderately priced, easy to use and to keep clean. Plus you can later add inexpensive silicone vibrator sleeves to them for new and arousing sensations.
I am looking into purchasing some sort of realistic pussy/ass device. I really want the most realistic feel possible. I want to think I am fucking a real woman when I close my eyes and go at it. But the sex toys that say they are realistic are so high priced. I can practically buy a real mail order bride for that money. Are there any less pricey sex toys that are comprable to the expensive realistic pussies?
- Cheap and Horny
Dear
Cheap and Horny,
The reason certain realistic pussy carries a big price tag is that they are often molded from the vaginas and anuses of famous female porn stars. To keep your costs down look for pussy sex toys that do not carry a porn star's name. They will be much cheaper, but feature the same realistic feel that you are craving.
You can also save money buy looking for ones that do not feature vibration packs. However, in this case, I think the extra cash would be well spent. A realistic pussy with a removable multi-speed vibrating device will only cost you a little bit extra, but will provide you with a much more exciting and realistic sexual experience.
For the finishing touch, be certain to save a little to invest in some sexual lubricant. A decent water-based lube is certainly available for very little money.
What the lube will do is create the sensation of a real woman's vagina. When women are sexually aroused their pussies secrete a natural lubricant. This is often referred to as a woman getting wet. When you have sex with a real woman your penis will be surrounded and lathered in the natural lube from her vagina. So in order to fully recreate that feeling with a realistic pussy sex toy you will want to lightly lubricate the inside of the toy.

