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Dear Sexpert,
I'm a 27 year old virgin. I'm not currently in a relationship and do not wish to have casual sex. I would however, like to explore vaginal penetration as a form of self-gratification. What kind of sex toys would you recommend for a woman such as myself who's only every fingered herself before (two fingers tops)?
Thanx in advance,
The Horny Virgin
Dear Horny Virgin,
For your situation a soft and slender dildo would be best. Something made of jelly or cyberskin might be ideal. Start small and thin. Look for sex toys that specifically say they are slim or slender. Whatever you do stay away from the Porn Star cocks for now. Those are always rather impressive. Alternatively you might consider usually butt plugs vaginally. You can usually purchase them in convenient packages of three (small, medium and large). That way you can slowly graduate yourself.
If you're hoping for the thrill of battery powered sexual vibrations, It's probably more cost-effective to buy one with vibration, but don't use the vibrating feature until you first become comfortable with manual insertion and thrusting.
And of course, use plenty of sexual lubricant no matter what. Always better too much than too little.
Enjoy your sexual adventures Horny Virgin.
Hello Sexpert,
My wife and I have been married for 23 years. We still love each other very much and wish to make love. The problem is I am not physically able to perform full on intercourse on my wife anymore. I'm 68 years old and I want to pleasure my wife, but I'm not sure how to do it. I eat her out sometimes, but we need more variety. I can get off just on the sound of her getting off, but how I need new ways to make her orgasm. Please help.
The Naughty Geriatric
Well, Naughty Geriatric,
You certainly raise an interesting question. Sex toys and other adult intimacy devices aren't usually marketted to the senior community, but perhaps they should be. There are lots of ways you can fuck your wife without having to physically over-exert yourself.
You'll need to discuss with your wife first, or include her in the purchasing processs. Because the choices are so many.
The best choice for you is dongs. The realistic kind look and feel just like a real penis. You can use the dong in your hand to vaginally make love to your wife. Vibration is purely preference, however, in your case, you will probably enjoy it more if it's you in control of the device.
Also to make your oral sex more interesting you can add warming massage oils. They will add extra stimulation to your wife's pussy and come in delicious scents and flavors for your pleasure.
Lastly tongue vibrators are all the rage in sex toys. You wear them in your mouth when you're performing oral sex on either a man or a woman. These sex toys great intensify the recipients orgasmic pleasure.
Have fun you dirty old coot.
God I need help! I'm a 38 year old, very healthy male. For the past couple of month now I can't get off no matter what I do. I've tried porn while I jerk off. I've tried picking up sexy women at bars. I even tried one of those realistic pussy masturbators. Nothing bad happened. My diet hasn't changed. My doctor says I'm fine. Please. What's wrong with me. Will I ever cum again?
Signed,
All Backed Up
Dear
Backed Up,
I'm sorry to hear about your terrible sexual frustration. It can be scary and depressing and once the problem begins anxiety can cause it to become a self-perpetuating scenario.
I'm neither a medical nor a psychology expert, so I caution that it may be best to seek the counsel of a trained therapist. But I'll offer a few suggestions will may help break the cycle.
You might want to try a different kind of porn. Sometimes bordem can be devastatingly. Try gay porn. Gay porn will totally turn you on even if you're a straight man.
You might also want to experiment with anal stimulation. It doesn't make you gay and plenty of straight men enjoy anal sexual stimulation.
You can use butt plugs. Start small and generously lube.
You might also benefit from a vibrating cock ring. You can use it during intercourse with someone else. It'll offer you both more intense sexual arousal. You can also use a vibrating cockring while you're masturbating.
And for even more fun trying combining some of these techniques. Wear a vibrating cockring while you use a butt plug on yourself. Or watch gay porn while you jerk off wearing your vibrating cockring.
On a final note, a lot of people find certain music helps them reach orgasm easier. Romantic musical or driving rhythmic rock usually work best.
Happy Cumming.