Women's Sex Toys and Adult Novelties

Anal sex...

It's old hat for some. Uncharted terriroty for others. Most men fantasize about it. While most wome wonder what the fuck. Stories abound, no doubt started by horny men, that there exist women who can only orgasm from anal sex. Maybe it's true. Maybe it's just an urban legend. Regardless, anal sex is something a lot of people are curious about.

Afterall, there are only so many ways for a hetero couple to have traditional intercourse. Anal sex offers something new and exciting. But it's not as simple as just agreeing that you both want to have anal sex. If it's your first time, it's going to take some preparation.

Start out with some quality lube. Lubricant that specifically indicates it's for use during anal intercourse. Begin by lubing the target anus and also the index finger of the penetrator.

It's important to start slow and work your way up to bigger and bigger. Start with one lubed finger. Insert it slowly and gently only up to the first knuckle. Give it a few soft twists and wiggles and ease it up to the second knuckle. Repeat the process until the length of the finger is inside the ass. Once there, give it a few good turns and thrusts.

Be mindful to listen to your partner during this process. It's important to communicate with each other both feelings of excitement and any of discomfort. Work together to proceed at your own mutual pace.

Once you've broached the anus with an entire finger you'll move up to two fingers. And repeat the the same steps as before. You might want to add some more lube before starting with the second finger.

After the second finger you have a few options on how to proceed. You can opt for a butt plug or anal probe. You can purchase butt plugs in a series of graduated thicknesses from slender to fat and work your way through them. Remember to continue using plenty of lube and proceed slowly and with a focus on communication.

You could also opt for anal beads. Anal beads are a series of non-porous balls on a string. The balls are usually graduated in size from small to larger. They can be inserted partially or all the way and have a handy retrieval cord.

A third finger is also a possibility. You'd want to squish them together to get them inside the ass. Not have them flat, straight across. Once safely inside the ass you can experiment with width and movement.

With a little patience, practice and healthy communication you can eventually graduate to penile anal penetration. Adding a new and exciting aspect to your sex-life.

Again be sure to lubricate amply. Better too much than too little. And again, move slowly and cautiously at first. Listen to each other and share your likes and dislikes on all aspects of the experience. Soon you'll be enjoying whole anal sex just like the pros. A whole new realm of sexual pleasure is only a fingertip away.